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writes:So, I have this classmate. I think I really like him. Last night we went out together, but as friends, I guess. We were sitting at the bar and were laughing all the time. He layed his arm right next to mine and touched my hand. He just kept it that way. Our arms were touching and we were talking. Then he asked me if I wanted to go outside (there is an outside part of the cafe), so we went outside. First we stood at a table, he touched my arm a few times and then we sat down. We sat very closely to each other and he touched my leg every now and then. He told me he has been with two girls, but only to find out he always makes the wrong choices, because they just weren't good to him. I really like him, we have lots of thing incommon. Do you think he likes me too? Or is this all just plain coïncedence? Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (24 October 2012):
 When I read your post I thought "yes, he likes her..." but then I saw read the part when you said that he told you he'd been with two girls only to find out he always makes the wrong choices "...because they just weren't GOOD to him..." What exactly does he mean by "good"? That they weren't putting out? Just be careful that this guy doesn't have ulterior motives in wanting to be with you. Remember, a guy will tell you what you want to hear and charm you to get what he wants. If on the other hand he IS genuine (and I'm not saying he isn't) then there's nothing wrong with meeting up again and deepening your friendship. Always be in control of your faculties and don't have too much to drink when you're out or things could get out of hand.Have fun, just keep your wits about you. If he's genuine then he'll have respect for you and he too will want to build on that friendship. ~Eve~
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