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lifeisconfusing
writes:Im so confused.my old life and friends are back and before with them i enjoyed life but when they left i was so depressed. i used to cut my self. ok with them i smoke and drank but i do not blame them for that i could of said no. But today i was hanging around with them for the 1st time in a year and we were meant to go to see one of there mates but a friend asked me if i really wanted to go- i knew what she menat becuase people take the mick out of me as im overweight. i know she was protecting me. i have tried to lost weigh i have lost a stone. But how should i live my life?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): I I I, You need to develop a sense of self. You are in control of everything you say or do. Once you alter your actions because of someone else or what they might think, then you become within their control.
Hold out your right hand and move your little finger, now did i move that or did you?
Good luck
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reader, q1605  +, writes (12 May 2008):
 There are things that must be generated from within.
That is what makes life so hard to live. What to do is the easy part. Doing it is the hard thing. I or the other aunts can answer your questions as specifically as you are willing to ask them. But there is no one right answer to encompass your whole life and every situation you find yourself in that gives you pause. Oscar Wilde said it best. The pure and simple truth is rarely pure and never simple.
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reader, lifeisconfusing +, writes (11 May 2008):
lifeisconfusing is verified as being by the original poster of the question Please help me the 2 comments i got were good but i need a little more helpx
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reader, q1605 +, writes (10 May 2008):
To thine own self be true. Your realization that the course you have been on may not be the best one for you, shows that you are ready to be honest about your life, and you are ready to be honest about this to yourself. And be honest with others. This is the back bone of any twelve step program, but it is the first and hardest obstacle to overcome. To seek answers you may not be able to come up with on your own is a sign of strength and a hurdle many people never overcome. The misconceptions people have about addictions is that the problem lies in the drug, or the sex or the food. But they are just symptoms of a larger problem. I can't tell you if a twelve step program is right for you but I would continue to seek guidance from outside yourself and from outside of this group of friends who may not have your best interests in mind.
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reader, LouLee +, writes (10 May 2008):
 Well, how do you want to live it??
Take things step at a time..
Do you want to lose weight for yourself or for other people?
It really is up to you. =)
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