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RealFunkyDudette
writes:hiyyas xx i maybe only 14 but i feel this strange feeling when i ring my bf i am just wonderin whether this was love or just my hormones going crzy? Cus i feel strange when i talk to him like this warm fuzzy feeling comes over me and when i kiss him it feels so right. Plus he is the greatest bf EVER but apart from all of those wonderful things im having second thoughts i feel like he is gunna hurt me like most of my other boyfriends, i dont want to love him but i do! I am so confused!!! Should i love him or leave him.... Reply to this Question |
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reader, TaylorChu  +, writes (12 September 2007):
 The feelings you get from talking with your bf and kissing him are physical reactions. My question to you is what is the purpose of your relationship. What is it based on? You are too young to be in a loving relationship. You are still developing and sex is a factor that will come up. Just be friends. Enjoy each other's company. If you decide to have a bf/gf relationship you'll get bored and one of you will pull away because there are so many other people out there and will capture your interest. If you aren't willing to marry the guy then there is no point to date. At your age you need to learn about yourself and not try to be a wife or lover to someone who doesnt know themselves yet. Be cool and take it easy. Leave the adult things to adults and just have fun in your life.
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reader, towapa +, writes (12 September 2007):
 Give him a chance, although don't trust him fully until you know for sure.
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reader, rcn + ♥, writes (12 September 2007):
 You've been hurt by other boyfriends. Sounds like your other boyfriends did not give you a warm fuzzy feeling, or you wouldn't be asking the question you did.
You need to learn this now, or you'll have a hard time later. Leave the hurt someone causes you with them. Don't attach it to relationships in general. Our minds play many tricks on us and one of the biggest tricks is not separating associations. If you write down the word RELATIONSHIP, under there would be the word HURT, under there would be what they did then caused by A BOY. This is how our brains associate things that happen in relationships, when the truth is the boy you are with now never hurt you. So these thoughts you are having you need to keep reminding yourself, THIS BOY NEVER DID THOSE THINGS, and you should give him a chance to prove that he won't.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (12 September 2007):
Most things new are exiting and tingly. Like an airplane ride or rowing a canoe. Love starts softly and grows. Be patient and see where your emotions go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007): its puppy love dont trip
but you know just take it slow and watch out
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reader, DONNA85 +, writes (12 September 2007):
hunny u cant be afraid of love cs ur afraid of getting hurt! u will just end up regreting it. u should go for it! im jealous that feeling u have now is the best part i think! dont give it up cause of fear!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007): Take it slow, what's the rush? To be honest you know when you are in love you dont doubt it for even a second. You dont have to love him or leave him to be honest, have some innocent fun together your only young once dont stress over falling in love yet. If you enjoy urself and dont stress you'll know exactly the feelings you feel for him.
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reader, broken babe +, writes (12 September 2007):
 stay with him dont immedietly try and fall in love just take it slow for awhile if hes right he wont care ive been with my bf a long long time and i still get that warm feeling when i get to talk to him and see him its just your brain trying to defend you really but again i would take it slow he might dump you in a week of for all you know youll be dating him for 3 years
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