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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been seeing this guy for a number of years and he says we're "just seeing each other" and "it means nothing..." When is it going to "mean something" and go further then just "seeing each other"? I dont even know what seeing someone means....So whats the deal? Why is the relationship not official yet? Reply to this Question
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (5 February 2011):
 Uh.. it's been YEARS and you're still just seeing each other? Sorry, but he directly told you it doesn't mean anything to him, that should've been your cue to leave and find someone that isn't such a jerk. It's not ever going to mean something because you're letting him use you. He has absolutely no respect for you. If you give someone the opportunity to take advantage of you for their benefit, they most definitely will take advantage of you. Why are you still hanging around waiting for this ass?
'Seeing someone' is basically the same as casually dating. You're dating each other, but not exclusively.
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reader, crummyscreenname +, writes (5 February 2011):
are you sleping with him? he's using you for sex. stay away. it 's never going to "become official".
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