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writes: Hi I have a serious problem on my hands,at least to me its a very serious problem. I'm extremely confused about my sexuality(orientation). I've been having serious contemplation in my head about sexuality, and questioning if I'm straight or not? O.k. so i have a girl that we're basically dating, we've been on and off for the past 3 years, and I'm head over heals for her. But lately me and one of my friends have been talking a lot and having very sexual conversations such as exchanging hand-jobs and sucking each others dicks, and I also fantasize about having sex with him and stuff like that. Plus we also actually planned to exchange hand-jobs at my Birthday Party in June, and I actually agreed to it for a little while, but changed my mind, but I'm still considering it. So I really need help from you guys and want to know what to do about this he sees it as "experimenting" and I kinda see it that way too. I just really need to know what other people would see my situation as. Please help!
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reader, MyDestiny  +, writes (25 April 2010):
 Truthfully, your situation is completely normal and very common. In fact, most people go through this stage of questioning themselves at a certain part of their lives. And it's mostly common in the teen years so don't worry. So what you make like guys, nothing wrong with that. Finding out your sexuality is just a normal part of life. So just live your life and have fun. And there's no need to label yourself..leave those for the cans. And if you wanna go with that plan you made with your buddy, go ahead. Have fun experiment and find yourself. Good luck
-A.E
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