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Cheating is never the answer.

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Article - (30 May 2010) 2 Comments - (Newest, 27 June 2010)
A age 41-50, writes:

Don't ever cheat!

Cheating is something a lot of people do or consider on doing. Feeling that lust and passion is something most people aren't strong enough to over come. I'm sure most of you have heard the expression "how can something so wrong feel so right". That is the lust speaking. Every one of us all get our moments where we want to just break the rules and to stand out. To feel "bad". It is part of being human. Although I believe that there are always other ways around this situation.

Cheating is like a bad itch, when you start to scratch you can't stop, it feel so good, the more you scratch the better it gets and you just can't stop even though you try. Then when the itchiness is gone you are left with a bad stinging burn feeling, pain. Most of the time it even leaves marks. If you had taken charge before the time this wouldn't have happened. Put something on that itch, don't let it take over you. Prove to yourself that you can do better and that you don't need this. You can hurt not only yourself, but the people around you as well. If you are not happy, sit down and speak to your partner, tell him how you feel and you two can work something out.

I hope that this advise helped some of you to change your point of view. Unfortunately more and more people lose their faith in God but we are his children and we can always turn to him for help. Just remember that we don't always get what we ask for and I believe that there is a reason for that. :)

NightFairy

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010):

I can relate to that, my boyfriend cheated on me with a computer. It's sorta funny actually because she wasn't a real person but made up by his close female friend using the internet. I think cheating is the intent of doing something you know it's wrong and that it will hurt your partner but you still do it anyway. Although she wasn't real, that didn't take away the fact that he would've met with her had she been real while we were still together. Here is a lousy reason to cheat; being a coward of a person to not end a relationship when it's going downhill but to meet some girl behind her back. As I've said she wasn't real, and he learned his lesson by being betrayed by one of his best female friends.

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A female reader, Iheartme Canada +, writes (31 May 2010):

I really like your article... only if people would listen to it though. Cheating happens no matter what.

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