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writes: I have been with guy L for 8months and we have been engaged for 5 months. Well just recently I ran into an old friend we started talking then one thing led to another before I knew it we had slept together. Now I think I may be pregnant what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008): I am going to tell you what the right thing to do is. First and foremost even though you may love your bf you obviously don't love him enough. When you trully love someone with that ever lasting love you have no desire to cheat on theme as hard as it may be to come to that realization. I would find out whether are not you trully are pregnant however don't let that effect your decision. You need to find someone you love so deeply you have no desire for any other man no matter how they look or how they portray themeselves. That is the key to everlasting love and being trully commited to someone.
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reader, Toria +, writes (26 October 2006):
 Firstly you need to find out one way or another whether you are pregnant then once you know that you can then sort the next problem out...the two guys!!
Good luck :o)
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reader, pica +, writes (26 October 2006):
I just can't get past "before I knew it we had slept together". Huh? What, you fell on top of him?? Pregnancy worries aside - get a test & advice - if you can so casually have sex with someone you randomly meet then you shouldn't be engaged. FYI I'm not judging your morals, just your ability to commit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006): I would say, find out if your pregnant first then if you are tell him what happend.
If your not pregnant then you still need to decide whether you love your fiancee and whether your likely to do it again. if you love your fiancee and want to make a go of it then for your own sake steer clear of this other man, and keep your urges under control woman!!.
We all make mistakes and deserve a second chance, (even your giving yourself a second chance). But if you make the same mistake twice then you its no mistake!!.
Just be realistic and behave yourself.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (25 October 2006):
 Several things.
Get a pregnancy test immediately.
Next you should consider splitting up with your fiancee. If you loved him and if your relationship was worth getting married for, then you'd not be sleeping with old friends. See it as a warning sign and learn from it.
You do owe it to your fiancee to tell him what has happened. Thats not an easy thing to do but it is the most honourable thing you can do under the current circumstances.
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