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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hello.. i cheated on my botfriend with a chick during our 2 day break up, and im not interested in having a three some. how would you guys react to something like this if you were the boyfriend? (coming clean tomorrow)
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reader, fakeplasticguy +, writes (15 March 2012):
No, it wasn't cheating. But it actually sucks. Non of his business some people say? Bullshit! The fact that you couldn't wait too long in order to get laid says a lot about your feelings and how important is the relationship (although, over for 2 days) for you. I'm pretty sure that his perception about you may change, and he has all the right to do it... But honesty before anything! And drink the bitter cup if required...
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (13 March 2012):
 You didn't cheat on him at all.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (13 March 2012):
 It wasn't cheating... and it's really none of his business. Why not just keep it to yourself????
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reader, YouWish +, writes (13 March 2012):
 I agree. You broke up, so it wasn't cheating. It's up to you whether or not to tell him. However, while you have no moral obligation to tell him, you took a risk in introducing an STD. A low risk, but a risk anyhow, anytime you're sexually active with someone new.
If you told your boyfriend, I'm thinking that he'll react similar to if you had found out that you slept with another guy while apart from him. It's not some sort of fun porn romp where the two girls are getting it on in anticipation of a man sandwich. You gave your body to someone else, and you're under no obligation to have a threesome. In fact, I think that shows disrespect to the woman you were with while apart from him that you look at her as first an outlet for curiosity, and then possibly a sex toy accessory. I know you don't want to, yes, but why even think that this is a possibility??
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (13 March 2012):
 How is it cheating exactly? You were broken up. You're under no morale obligation to tell him anything... just quietly.
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