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Caught her in a lie. What now?

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Question - (21 November 2017) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2017)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

Two years ago I was ghost. I treated her really well. She told me before that she runs when a man starts falling for her, so I never contact an ex, that's how I, get my closure, but a friend told me about a site, where you can look up people’s, past. or if you meet someone new, you can look them up, an see if you want to take it further. Well I did that. its a site where employers, look up people to see if they have a police record, and other things, how many times married, kids, where they have lived, driving records, just a lot of things you do have to pay for it. Well I looked up my ex, she has been married three times, not one time like she says. all the other things, were right. But what am asking is the picture wasn't her, she never let me meet her family or friends, never went where she hung out at just my places, and only got to see her once a week. Was she pulling a lie on me? we all know love makes us blind, but am the one who all my friends ask for help in relationships.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (1 December 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntLook she is your ex for a reason, and it sounds like the lady who was your ex was keeping a lot from you. But it is not healthy now to look her up. Accept that she is part off your past, that she may not have been honest with you but she is not in your future now. You need to let it go.

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (22 November 2017):

Denizen agony auntShe is your ex isn't she? Have I understood that correctly? Why are you researching her now? You clearly haven't moved on if you are raking through the past. My friend, madness lies that way. Look to the future not the past.

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