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Caught cheating with his ex..what do I do?

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Question - (11 June 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 June 2013)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I were having problems because he is obsessed with his cell phone. I broke up with him because nothing else would show him that im serious. well we got back together in a matter of days,decided to work on our problems. and yesterday he couldn't come see me on my break even though he was 2 miles away, said he might have to run errands for his mom. I might be pregnant with his child.

I found out last night he was cheating on me, in the act. his sister told me he was at his ex's apartment. he told me this morning hes so sorry he loves me so much and puts it on god he will never do it again. he said he got cold feet about us arguing and potentially being a daddy. what do I do?

Note, when we first got together we had a fight bc he was texting this same ex behind my back and trying to hide it. I need some major advice.

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A female reader, katiekate United States +, writes (13 June 2013):

katiekate agony auntDUMP HIM. Please, understand that he will never change (despite what he might say), and you deserve better than this. Hold your head high and respect yourself enough to walk away. Any man who truly loves you, respects you, and values you would not be cheating on you. It's black and white- there is no gray in a situation like this. The quicker you move on, the better off you will be. I know it is so incredibly hard at first, but you will be in much more pain in the long run if you stay with a cheater.

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A female reader, sugarplum786 South Africa +, writes (12 June 2013):

sugarplum786 agony auntYou know he was cheating in the begining of the relationship, continue to cheat and you go and fall pregnant with his child?

He is not over his ex and there is a constant pull. You need to now decide if you want to continue a relationship with a cheater which will only bring you heartache, or leave and figure how you manage in your current situation.

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