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Can you 'teach' family members how to masturbate if they asked you?

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Question - (12 February 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2008)
A male Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

is it ok for a 19 year old guy to show his 15 year old brother how to masturbate if he asks him to

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A male reader, pope732901  +, writes (14 February 2008):

pope732901 agony auntIts really wrong... Let him discover it himself.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008):

Yeah, I think it'd be a nice thing for you to do, it shows you care about him and have a strong relationship together, to be able to ask such intimate questions. But yes, words are enough! Good luck honey :]

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008):

I would leave it for him to discover it himself or you could get into some real trouble with the incest thing. Sorry, but i dont think it is right. Get him to have a look at some of the sites that the other aunts have put on here, on the internet.

take care


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A male reader, Mr.Worry United States +, writes (12 February 2008):

Mr.Worry agony auntI could never see myself"teaching"a person how to masturbate.Sounds like something else is below the suface.Masturbation is a natural thing,especially for guys.I descovered it as a kid taking a bath.No guy needs to be"taught"how to masturbate.

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (12 February 2008):

Sandman agony auntI agree with everyone here on this one. It can be viewed as very disturbing if you actually show your brother how to masturbate. Words (just telling him) should be enough.

If he's looking for different techniques, then he can look it up on the web. Be careful though, there are some very pornographic websites claiming to "teach" masturbation. One good website without pictures or anything is:

A very good website for men about men.

You can, however, give him some good sound advice. Like using lube so he doesn't chafe his member. And if he insists on seeing it in action, a banana can be used as a stunt double when showing masturbation techniques.

Hope this helps.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008):

Hi Hunny

Im going to send you a link hunny to show your brother I would say no to that question, How did you learn not by being shown I presume your brother will get to no his own body in time hun.

Hope this helps with love mandy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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