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NickPalace
writes:Hey,I'm at uni and have become friends with a girl, who is really hard to understand and comprehend how her feelings are. She's virtually turned down guys before but that is because she knew they liked her but she didn't do anything about it so they kind've gave up. She just doesn't show her feelings if she has any.Me and her have a sort've connection, and other people have ommented on this. She's a really open person about everything, really bubbly, chatty and flirty, but it's so hard to work out what she's thinking inside.I've danced with her at clubs, but never gone to kiss her because I don't want to get the wrong idea.We've joked with her about being a lesbian, but she says she isn't, so basically I and others don't undestand why she is the way she is.. how do I go about this? I do like her, but can't really just ask her because of the above reasons, and why do you think she is the way she is about guys?Thanks for any help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2008): Maybe she's not as confindent as she seems and doesn't want to seem interested in you and these other guys so she is not rejected. I also agree with the other comments that she's probably been hurt in the past.
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reader, Danielepew  + ♥, writes (15 February 2008):
 If you have an interest in her, I think you should approach her to the point she feels like she can confide in you. This has to be the real thing; you're not just to pretend you're trustworthy. Maybe this way she will open up.
Or not. Be ready for that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008): Hi Hunny,
Maybe she has been hurt in the past, And she finds it hard to trust another hunny. But she seems to trust you so thats a good thing. Maybe she just needs time and she is not the type of girl to hop into bed with just anyone so she respects herself thats a good thing. She maybe just not ready for a relationship and is happy the way things are at the mo, So go with the flow hunny you never know what may have happened in peoples past, Your doing a good job of being a mate at the moment thats the first sign of trusting I hope this heped TAKE CARE LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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