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writes: i know alot of people dont agree to this, because relationships should have trust, but im hoping to get answers anyway.. my boyfriend cheated on me once not too long ago. i have a very hard time trusting him now because he didnt come clean on his own, i had to find out from his brother, who doesnt ge along with him.. any way i forgave him, but i still havent gained my trust back, and was wondering if anone knew how to get free text message spy wear?? i feel the only way to trust him is going to be to find out for myself, because i cant take his word right now. i love him very much, so i can forgive him if he's not cheating any more, but i just have to know for sure... please and thank you..
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 Hunny dont go down this path please, it is invading his privacy and it is wrong. You cant control someones behaviour by spying on them.
I understand that you have trust issues and you are right to but hun you are the one that choose to forgive him so you have to live with that choice, explain to him that you are finding it very difficult at the moment to trust him and make him work hard to regain your trust back dont spy on him because it is not fair on either of you.
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