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30-35,
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writes:can u be truly happy when you are always in and out of relationship and never on your own?my friend is 45yr old male and has 2 kids with 2 different women; he left the 2nd woman with a 4 month old baby to be with someone else..do you think he's happy in his life? he'S been engaged twice and not with the mothers of his children, he had 2 relationships that have lasted 4 yrs max. And he's always gone for girls that are in their early 20's..the two baby mums are in their 30'sWhen the relationship goes wrong he blames the girl and never takes responsibilty for his actions and the part he as played. When you talk to him about it he just snaps and has an "attitude"
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reader, Samutsen  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 Happiness is not necessarily rightousness or correctness.
A drug abuser, a criminal, a homless person and a womenizer (as in your friends case) can eventually be happy.
I think our goal in life is while trying to be happy, to be human, to be just, to be rightous and correct also. Happiness without irresponsibility then may also come at the cost of other's sadness and destruction. (and in many cases self-destruction.)
His irresponsible character allows him to be happy without care to the others. While most people out of sense of respnsibilites will not do the same and in fact even if they did will not be happy at all.
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reader, Charley Coles +, writes (28 November 2007):
This man is a player. Thats the first thing i have to say. He may bee more attracted to youger woman because 45 year old woman aint the young fit woman they use to be. Some men do get pleasure and are happy going from woman to woman. Dont waste your time with him he aint worth it
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