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Can someone help me figure out how my strange partner's mind works?

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Question - (9 June 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2010)
A female South Africa age 36-40, *ilentgoth writes:

Im with ths guy 4 2yearz nw.we got a baby gal 2getha.my bfs ex tries everythng to break us up.cumn to my joint to bring maintanance letters 4 the kids he got by her.shes just everything bad.my bf whom i dnt knw is scared of her or sumthn, plays like a little kid weneva she phones 4 money.he says that she always wantd to b in control of his credit card.always buying clothes on debt.bt neva she buy food. Me on the otha hand,im the total opposite.i treat hm like a king! I do everything 4 him.he doesnt say thank you afta eatin. He doesnt greet ppl.he eats vulgar. I observed that he got that manners 4rm hs ex. I talk nicely and ask hm 2 do sumthn 4 me.afta dat if i c he dont respond,i get aggrovated,start talking loud and then i wantd to fight.like literally gauge his eyes out. Ok so it came so that we moved to be on our own renting a house.he took leave 4rm work 4 a week.i askd hm if he was gna settle sum issues that week, he just laid and slept whole week.i got fedup and fought with him and told hm i do 2 much 4 hm and he dnt treat me lyk a woman and he always ignores me.he didnt reply. Afta dat, he went and told hs ex that he dont wana be wif me and he wana cum bk. I found owt through my instincts.i sms her using his phn. And she knew it was me and told me wat he said. So why everytime when we have an argument and fought.or just wen im sick or maybe on my period and he ask me 4 sex, i refuse coz women go thru those kinda phases,he wana run 2 her.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010):

People might read and write an answer to your question if they could read it...I started to and just got frustrated with your abbreviations and misspelled words.....

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