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Can I trust my boyfriend after I found his phone bill?

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Question - (15 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *iamaria writes:

ive been with my boyfriend for about 10months now,and has been going so well, until i found his phone bill.

there was one number that kept on popping up,he was ringing and texting this person everyday and at one point he had texted 50 times in one day.

i asked him about it and he said it must be a mistake on the bill, then later on told me it was his ex.

he says she doesnt mean nothing to him, if so why does he contact he so much when im not around.

i dont know what to think, i love him so much and makes me feel so unloved that he contacts her more than me. i need help. thanks

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A female reader, tiamaria United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2008):

tiamaria is verified as being by the original poster of the question

tiamaria agony auntthankyou so much for your answers,i have been hard on him,and he has changed his number not that makes to much difference,cos he could still have her number,i will see how it goes,and if i still feel unloved i will have to end it,thankyou so much.x

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2008):

I think you need to be hard on him about this.

The fact he's doing it in secret away from you is very suspicious. And then he lied to you.

I think you need to ask him to cut contact with her, and be open about you when she contacts him.

Find out what is going on and make sure it is nothing that will come between you.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008):

If he is makeing you feel unloved you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel,You may need to find someone else that can treat you how you want to be treated.

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