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Can I trust her?

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Question - (7 November 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *CDarkly writes:

I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly three years and we have a four month child together.

She recently told me that she replaced her contraception with sugar pills in order to get herself pregnant without my consent. She used to go to bed early so she could text a guy she went to go to work with. I have forgiven her for this because I love my daughter but since the baby was born it seems like she has lost all feeling she once had for me. I've have tried to talk to her about it to her but she just ignores the question and rolls her eyes as if saying "not this again".

Yesterday I found out that she has been texting her ex and delelting the messages. I asked her about it and she just said that he was asking how she was.

Is something wrong or am I just being paranoid? Has she fallen "out of love" with me or is she just too pre-occupied with our child? I need help.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010):

well bro, if there's nothing between her and her ex, why the hell is she hiding all the texts?... if she was clean and honest with you, i guess she should be able to share everything with you, she should not hide anything..

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