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male
age
16-17,
Sir Whetty
writes:I really like this female teacher and I think she likes me. I'm in year 11 soon leaving and also I'm 16 in a few days. I want to start a relationship with her but I don know that there are laws on this kinda things but am not to sure what they are. I think that it would be ok if we started a relationship once I have left the school so not to have a risk of losing her job. I am soon going to be 16 also and since most of my friends are in sexual relationships I really want this person to be my first.She is 7 years older than me. I love her loads, I can't get her out of my head she is amazing and very different to everyone else. She already makes me happy but I just want to go a bit further. I know I wouldn't be able to buy her drinks and etc but as long as there is love that is the most important thing but I am slightly scared of the laws on student teacher relationships. I'm not sure if i should tell her how I feel but I don't see the problem if I am not in the school then I think she wouldn't be able to lose her job. What do I do, I think I should follow my heart but I also don't want her to lose her job for me but I want her.Could you give me some help please. It would be great
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reader, Sir Whetty +, writes (27 May 2008):
Sir Whetty is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks lady luffaduck. I haven't seen her in a while and won't see her becuase I am on study leave. Would that be ok to tell her now?
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reader, lady luffaduck +, writes (25 May 2008):
Hey Make sure that this is not just a school boy crush as you could be putting her in a very difficult situation. Once you have left school wait a while to make sure that you really want her. I would advice you to wait and not go out with her straight after you have left school as people may get the idea that you were going out while you were still at school and this could jebradise her job.good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): Your question has been answered before, but to add; 7 years is a long time when you're 16. There are vast differences, not to mention that at 16 you're not fully mature, and less mature than even girls your own age, let alone a woman of 23. She has a life set up; a house with a mortgage, a car, responsibilities. Do you even know if she's available? At 16, would you want to settle down, move in with her, do cooking and cleaning, work to help pay the bills? Never see your friends? But you'd never be able to do things with her either - where would you go? The cinema, as long as it isn't an 18 certificate. A meal, as long as you didn't drink.This relationship could never be, in the real world.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): Sometimes the heart goes where it shouldn't... thats why we have a brain, to prevent it carrying us off and causing unneeded destruction.Tristan
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reader, Emivia  + ♥, writes (25 May 2008):
 If your relationship was really ment to be then you would have to wait a few years. Sorry.The age gap would seem smaller as you got both got older. If a relatioship started between you now then she could be accused of being a pedophile. You'd be better off looking for someone your own age for now.Hope this helped you a little.Luck.x
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