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writes:i am frmo a very closed mined cluture and i am geeting married in a couple of months i used to masturbate when i was young and sometimes till now too...we are not allowed to have sexual intercoursei ned to know if masturnation can cause me to lose my virgintiy it is very importantn Reply to this Question |
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reader, satindesire  +, writes (9 April 2009):
 What all of ya'll don't understand is that people of the same sex DO have intercourse. Oral, anal, and vaginal sex are all sex, and everyone has their own PERSONAL definition of what 'virginity' means to them.
Instead of trying to force someone to believe what YOUR idea of virginity is, you should instead give them the opportunity to make their own choices. I was raped when I was 16, vaginally, he tore my hymen and since it was intercourse, some people would say that he took my virginity. But I consider my virginity lost only when I GAVE IT WILLINGLY.
The lack of a hymen does not equal virginity. That is a totally relative and personal choice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): I always thought it was sexual intercourse with a man and a woman. I never thought of it with the same sex. I'm confused now.
But, no, masturbation doesn't lose virginity. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): I'm sorry, but I completely disagree with chazx on this one. You can only lose your virginity through intercourse, that is the definition of losing it. Also, the question asker is only speaking of 'passionate relations' with herself, so that doesn't even apply.
So no, you did not lose your virginity.
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reader, chazx  +, writes (8 April 2009):
 I disagree with some of the answerrs below.
You lost your virginity when you have passionate relations with your partner (maybe that be male or female).
A same sex couple can make one another lost there virginity to.
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reader, satindesire +, writes (8 April 2009):
Please read this article, it'll help you.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/thinking-about-losing-your-virginity.html
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female
reader, hannah76 +, writes (8 April 2009):
Hello,
No, masturbation may tear your hymen. You lose your virginity when a penis enters your vagina. Plain and simple. xxxx
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reader, LilPixie + ♥, writes (8 April 2009):
 Simply put - NO.
You can break your hymen through masterbation and other activities such as dance, horse back riding, etc.
Remember, it doesn't hurt for everyone the first time and not everyone bleeds and some women are even born without a hymen so you don't have anything to worry about - I understand that some 'cultures' and religions are very strict about this - so just make sure that your future husband knows about this if it doesn't hurt or bleed at your first time.
You are still a virgin until you have sexual intercourse with a man.
Good luck
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