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Can I get sick from doggy style anal sex?

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Question - (25 August 2014) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 August 2014)
A female South Africa age 30-35, *obuhle writes:

hi everyone plz help me n my bf we meet in 3mnths ago we madly in luv but everytym we hv sex (dogstyl) we do it in my ass n it painfull sometimes i cnt even seat for dayz becouse off the pain im feeling when i tell him he said he enjoys the dogstyl more then ather styls what shuld i do couse i luv him so much plz help whuld i get sick or m i sick ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2014):

Stds such as HIV are more easily transmitted because the anus is not meant to be penetrated- it's fragile and has no lubrication so damage and tearing may happen. Even if you use a lot of lubrication, anal sex still causes bleeding in the tiny blood vessels present and this can not only cause disease transmission it can also aggravate hemorrhoids. Another result of anal sex is damage to your sphincter which can eventually cause incontinence and other problems. Risks for anal cancer is also much higher in those who regularly have anal sex due to hpv transmission. Unprotected anal sex is a big risk, especially with the rates of cheating and deception present in many relationships today.

Why do you want to be with someone who would do all this to you and not care about how it's affecting you at all?

My advice is to stop having anal sex and to find a new bf.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (25 August 2014):

Honeypie agony auntIf you do not enjoy it and are in pain for days then WHY do you keep doing it? Because HE likes it?

Have a little self respect, young lady, and tell him I don't enjoy the anal sex at all. If he doesn't accept that then WHY be with him?

Are you two using condoms? lubrication?

Can you get sick from it? Well, obviously you can. The same STD's can be contracted through anal sex, the risk of rectal cancer is much higher in people having anal sex. Otherwise, if practised SAFELY most people don't have problems with it other than the issue that some PEOPLE just do NOT want/like to participate in anal sex.

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