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Can I get an hpv virus and pass it off to my wife if I have never had sex with anyone else?

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Question - (24 July 2013) 7 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2013)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

we were married in 75, and in 82 my wife had a rapid weight loss issue that prompted her to go to her dr. he found beginning stages of cancer on her cervix and had to remove them. she never mentioned how she got it but now we know about hpv. is this what she had?

can i get an hpv virus and pass it off to my wife if i have never had sex with anyone else? or is there another reason for this type of precancerous growth?

she also swears she never had sex with anyone else as well. now that dr. oz told the public the only way to get cervical cancer or growths on cervix is from hpv, i am having doubts about her fidelity.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2013):

Hope this helps you (the answerer is a nurse): http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090622134448AA8pIPQ

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2013):

I'm afraid I can't answer much on your question in much depth, but I can tell you that I am 26 and I had to have cancerous cells removed from there myself last year. I have never had sex or any sexual contact before EVER, so there have to be other ways you can get it. When I asked my doctor she said these things happen sometimes and no-one can say why. Please don't assume the worst and support your wife through this. All the best.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (25 July 2013):

person12345 agony auntIf either of you ever did anything like fingering, hand jobs, oral sex, dry humping without clothing or with very minimal clothing, it's possible to get that way.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2013):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thats just it there always at some point has to be another partner. we have been together since teens. so how could she get it?

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (25 July 2013):

person12345 agony auntVirtually all cervical cancer is caused by HPV. However, you can get HPV without having sex, such as hand to genital contact or something like rubbing or touching, if either of you had done that. HPV can take many, many, many years to cause problems and is very often asymptomatic.

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A female reader, largentsgirl89 United States +, writes (25 July 2013):

largentsgirl89 agony auntNot all cervical cancer is caused by HPV. Men carry it and because it usually has no symptoms in them, is very difficult to find unless that is what you are specifically searching for. Were you tested? There are a million different ways she could have gotten cervical cancer.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2013):

"A recent diagnosis of anogenital warts or HPV related precancerous or cancerous lesion(s) does not necessarily mean that a partner has been unfaithful. Infection with HPV may have occurred years ago and the virus can remain in the body for weeks, years, or even a lifetime, without any sign of an infection. This makes it hard to know exactly when or from whom someone got the virus. There is no way to find out how long a particular infection has been there. Most people who are infected with anogenital HPV are not aware of it. "

http://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca/std-mts/hpv-vph/hpv-vph-qaqr-eng.php#a6

to sum it up: according to this it seems like it doesnt have to mean she cheated, it could mean that she got it from a previous partner, or even from you if you got it from a previous partner and it just didnt show until now

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