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writes:See I myself is gay and I live with a few straight guys I work for a carinval company that house a few us including myself for the winter to work or update rides. I met this wonderful straight guy and had a quite a few encounters when no one was around. In those encounters he was a little high on weed and always went down on him. Basically one sided, but we have kissed and he felt me up with skin to skin contact. I started to love him last winter and this year I have told him that I had more than freindship feeling foe him. He said that he was flattered, but I think I hurt this freindship by telling the I fell for him. After that I been getting a little cold shoulder and attitude if I ask him a question. A few person have seen me with him that to them I look happy. on the other hand, I feel hurt inside when the guy brushes me off. He hibetnates in a bedroom with the door closed and feelings of being shut out comes to mind. Maybe for him out of sight out of mind or the three monkeys.. He is my questions:How can I fix the freindship like is was in the beginning? Would it be that he has feelings for me and denying the fact feels the same? Everyone is going to say forget him, but I do not giveup or back down on what I want. I have eased up a little bit to give him some space, but the space feels like it is getting larger. Reply to this Question
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reader, ivarfeb2  +, writes (24 April 2009):
i had my friend.he too behaved the same.but now no longer talking to me after i told him.i still think he is also having feelings for me.Tell me if u find out about your friend
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you, but there is a problem that is he would not sit down to talk to me about it. On the many occation I have tried to talk to him with no one around and still he would change the subject. I will try one more time the week. thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): He is most definately questioning his sexuality. He is a straight man you said. But at this point it appears he is gay. He is probably going through alot in his mind. Do you rememebr when you realized you were gay? What did you think? and what did you do?
Just talk to him. Tell him what you feel and that you want things to either progree to a relationship or to go back to friendship. Dont walk the line. You have to know exactly what you two are. Either lovers or friends. Then stick to it.
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