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writes:Is it possible to check on a mobile phone history if my hubby has been sex chatting with other women over Skype. The reason I ask this question is that I have seen a lot of Skype login on his web and app activity and he has never mentioned this, we also have Skype on the laptop, but the laptop gives different history to the phone, for instance a girl has asked to be his contact, that is on the phone but not on the laptop. Many months ago his phone rang and it was a Skype video call, I was standing right besides him so he couldn't hide it, there was a girl laying on her stomach on a bed, scantily clad, looking in to the camera lens, no sound, so when I was asking her who she was, there was no answer, my hubby cut the call, and said he didn't know her or how she got his details, is this possible? He did use a sex chat line many years ago and when I found out about that he said his friend had put him up to it. I am worried as he is a porn addict, a therapist told me this 7 years ago, the one and only time he agreed to go to one, coz I threatened to leave him over him propositioning a lap dancer. He has many hours in the house on his own when I am at work as he does not work. There are very real trust issues here, we have been married for over 30 years, and for the last ten since I found out about his addiction and wanted to help him, which he refused and will not do any recovery work. Please help as I am very worried now.
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reader, Kate1967  +, writes (17 March 2016):
He's cheating. Plain and simple.
He cannot be trusted.
Dump him and move on ... married for 30 years, there should at least be trust in the relationship. Clearly you have lack of trust, no respect and no love left.
Run!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 February 2016):
 I think you know the answers that you need already. Some girl didn't just skype him by mistake. You know he is lying. He has an addiction to porn, which I imagine also leads to live calls on skype when you are out. I know you don't want to think it is true, but I think you know deep down that it is.
This is cheating in its own way because he is using real women to have sexual encounters with, even if it is over the internet. You say yourself he doesn't want to change, and will not get help. So either you need to accept this or tell him to choose you or the sex lines.
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