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Can boys feel if they have 'pre-cum'? Could I be pregnant? Did I lose my virginity?

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Question - (28 May 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 23 October 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and boyfriend were messing around and i started to give him head but he said that he wouldn't be able to orgasm as he already masturbated that day. Shortly after we ended up having sex but it was just for a couple of minuites and neither of us were extreemly turned on, and he was pretty sure that he didn't pre-cum as all the magazines say that the 'pull out method' does not work. But can boys feel it? and is there a possibility i am pregnant? and also have i know lost my virginity?

Thanks.

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A male reader, georgezz Australia +, writes (23 October 2010):

my dear...you are just messed up!

there are chances that you could be pregnant coz the pull out method is not even barely 80% safe.

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A male reader, Short timer United States +, writes (4 June 2008):

Short timer agony auntHope the boy stays with you because you are no longer a virgin, You can be pregnant, as for pre-cum most people dont feel it, good luck youll probably need it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008):

''it takes about 5-10 hours for sperm to die if they don't reach an egg. ''

actually sperm can survive for up to a week in the female body!

- shocking i know,yet true!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008):

Three quick answers:

1 - nah, you can't feel precum, it just kinda dribbles out.

2 - you are no longer a virgin.

3 - yes, you could quite easily be pregnant.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008):

HMMm some of his "answers" sound like bulls***t to me, guys and girls are able to orgasm more than once, it will take a "bigger effort" if the guy/girl has masturbated/had an orgasm in the past (say) 10 minutes because the body undergoes a wave of endorphins and the muscles become tense and sensitive and they have to relax again. So that's that

There's no way that he would 100% sure that he didn't cum because while you 2 are going at it, most likely he wasn't focusing on "not pre-cumming" or "I'm not gonna cum", also he can't control that!, plus also some times other fluids that come from the sex organs contain sperm and those could impregnate you, also since according to him he "masturbated" earlier, it takes about 5-10 hours for sperm to die if they don't reach an egg. It doesn't matter if he's/you are not turned on, penetration ALWAYS has risks, specially if you aren't protected, I am sorry to be so blunt and I'd hate to sound like a byotch but everytime you have unprotected sex your chances of becoming pregnant increase by about 15-25%.

Last, loosing your virginity means that a penis has penetrated your vagina which sounds to me like that's what happened...

Hope it helps!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008):

I'm not sure I useally feel when I pre cum but but that's only when I'm masturbating I'm not to sure about sex though. And technicly your not a virgin if you've had intercourse

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008):

Young lady,

I know how you feel. Your scared and worried. If you have a good friend to confine in go and get pregnacy and make sure your not pregnant. If you had sex, your no longer a virgin. There is no such thing is half virgin. Your either is or isn't. Some boys or men can feel they're about to cum but that doesn't meam they caught all the pre cum before it happened. I tried the withdraw method myself and I now have 3 children. If your not pregnant I suggest you use a much more better method. If you are pregnant it's not the end the world. If you want to do the things to prove your woman and then you have to think like woman and be responsible. All a boy or man is thinking about while he is inside you is getting his filled, He's not worried at that time if your going to get pregnant he may think about that later. Think about that the next time you have sex.

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