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writes:Recently my friend told me he had feelings for me and had done for months and wanted to break up with his girlfriend. Ive always had feelings for him but never did anything about it because of his girlfriend.We spent a lot of time together talking about what we should do and in the end he decided to break up with his girlfriend last monday.He kept asking me to meet him that week and i ended up staying round his house for two days from thursday untill saturday(no sex, just kissing because we wanted to take it slow)A group of us from work went out the sunday night but his ex kept texting him saying how much she loved him and missed him and things would change and be different if they got back together. He got really confused and told me he needed time and space to work out what he wanted and what to do for the best as he wasnt sure.I took that to mean he was considering going back to his girlfriend so i told him i would give him space whilst he worked things out. However on the tuesday night a group of us went to a gig and he was being all affectionate to me like holding my hand and putting his arm around me which confused me as he wanted space yet was intiating this contact with me.On Wednesday night he came into work on his day off to pick something up just as i was finishing my shift and he asked me if i fancied going for a drink so we did and he was all affectionate with me again and kept kissing me.That night he then went to his girlfriends house and told her it was over between them for good (i know this is true because she text me in the morning telling me) as he knew she thought there was a chance they would get back together.However he is now acting completely normal with me again on the phone, like just chatting to me like friends, although he did say he might come and see me tomoro before work to cheer me up because im ill with flu at the minutecan anyone tell me what's going on?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 His thoughts may not have stabilized yet and he is in some choppy sea. Expect some rough signals before his sea becomes calm again.
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reader, Sweet-thing + ♥, writes (9 February 2008):
 It sounds like he really wants to be with you but he's dealing with some guilt when it comes to his ex girlfriend because he knows she still loves him and he sort of yanked the rug out from underneath her. Be patient, I think once his g/f adjusts to the fact that he's not coming back, he will be able to focus more attention on you and your relationship will finally be able to move forward. At least he did the honorable thing, by breaking up with his ex before he started really pursuing you. That shows some character!! Just give it time and things should work out okay.
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