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writes:I am a mid 20s female and I'm trying to find out the meaning to a dream I have had twice. In my dreams I'm myself and I'm making out with a female (not the same person both times) I know but aren't close with in my wake life. Then the making out turns into getting intimate and when we strip we both reveal micropenises and we get off by rubbing them together, kissing more, and sucking each other's. After the revealing, I'm aware it's a dream and something is off, but I don't care and carry on anyways. Can anyone shed some light on this for me? I am in a 4 year relationship, have a child and up until recently, the relationship wasn't the happiest.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (4 September 2017):
 The dream means you are exploring different sides of your femininity. You kiss different women in a search for different feminine expressions. A kiss in a dream often symbolizes unity, or closeness and family, and is not sexual. You kiss because you want to get in contact with. You move on to sexual acts for further closeness and to reach deeper to contact your different levels within you. Sex in a dream, like a kiss, is not the same as it is to the awake world. It's not sexual, actually. It's just an expression for closeness and exploration of your psyche. Perhaps you feel you have lost yourself a bit, and is now searching for who you are and who you want to be.
The micropenises don't surprise me at all, and I don't think this part in particular bears significant meaning. You should look at the total picture of the dream when analyzing it. Maybe you have watched porn recently, in porn they almost always show a penis being stimulated, and not a clitoris. Your subconsciousness almost always use images from your waking life to make a point. So unless you've watched yourself being stimulated in the mirror a lot, or have had sex with a woman, your brain just doesn't have the necessary "photo data" to provide the correct image for your dream. It goes by what is accessible, which is penises.
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reader, Been there Now over it +, writes (1 September 2017):
When you wake up do you find this erotic and pleasurable? Or are you disgusted by it? In other words, is it something you'd really like to do? Figuring that out will help in analyzing this dream.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2017): This dream is reminding you of your inner strength as a woman!You are aware of the way the mans world operates and your clitorius is an analogy of the penis.Men tend to club together and consider themselves entitled and superior but this becomes the penis club to many woman.Has your bloke been having an affair?If so, your inner woman has come to tell you that you have woman power to take advantage yourself so the clitorus has the same function as the penis in allowing you freedom to control your own life.I suggest you join womens groups for women with kids so that you get moral support for empowerment in your life.It doesnt mean that you need a female sexual partner but it does mean that you need to embrace yourself and recognise your own power to control your own life.Many other women seek help this way.You do not need solitude right now.You need friendship.Women get together and joke and laugh the blues away and you would be surprised what half an hour or more of polishing nails and sharing anecdotal tales can do for a woman!You may be locked in an ivory tower without realising it and your inner spirit has come to free you.At least take your child swimming and enjoy playing in the cool water.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2017): You can't place any importance in a dream. They are fantasy and can be a culmination of many things going through your mind when you're depressed, suppressing anger or guilt; or you want to do something, but consciously resisting any thoughts about it.
All sorts of stuff show-up in dreams. Just because it happened twice doesn't give it anymore importance. Now if they are a result of post-traumatic stress and recur as flashbacks that is quite different. You require therapy under those circumstances.
Perhaps you are also sexually-attracted to women. Now that your relationship is souring; your mind is venturing into new places to find pleasure.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (31 August 2017):
 It could be just that you are expressing yourself sexually through your dreams. If the relationship has not been at its happiest until recently then it could be just your mind wandering on to something else to pleasure you and bring you happiness. Try not to worry about it and don't over analyze it. We all have funny dreams from time to time. It doesn't mean you want to be with a woman or anything else for that matter. So try not to let it worry you. Are you sure now you are much happier in your relationship?
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