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Can anyone decipher his actions?

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Question - (28 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom, *issaqua777 writes:

Interested or is it in my head??

- he often looks at me regardless of if we make eye contact and sometimes he actually cranes his head there was this time i was laughing with some1 he proper looked, i look at him sometimes but i mainly slyly observe to see if he's looking

also the other day i walked past went to get something when i was coming back approaching him he craned his head backwards and looked and then we held eye contcat for a second then he smiled i smiled too ;D and there was this time wayy back i'd seen him what twice, him in a room talking i came in and when im going out he was prolonging eye contact with his eyebrows raised then he held the door open for me i don't know if was my nerves but i swear there was something buzzing there was also someone else in the room

he was also angry at this person and when he saw me as i passed he like raised his voice as though trying to sound impressive but i dont know maybe he was just angry?? :S D

sorry for the length it's just i don't know how significant these little things are maybe reading too much because i like him am i getting the total wrong idea about this guy it feels like there's strong chemistry but maybe it's just my nerves-- any advice VALUED XXX thanks :)

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A female reader, missaqua777 United Kingdom +, writes (28 January 2009):

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missaqua777 agony auntyeah but why would he KEEP looking at me i also look for signs that he isn't iterested im trying SO hard to keep things real in perspective LOL when i read this over it seems he does like me but like you said i don't want to get hurt.

thanks :):)

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A female reader, itsJanine Canada +, writes (28 January 2009):

itsJanine agony auntHello love :)

Well, this question sure hits home. I've been in your position many times before, so I know how you must be feeling.

My first piece of advice? Don't worry so much about it. I know that'll be really hard to listen to, but if you keep analyzing his every move and wondering if he's into you, everything he does will seem like he wants to get with you. Our sub-concious is a strange thing; it sometimes makes us see things we want to see, even if it's not really there. As long as you want him to like you, he will seem insanely attracted to you.

Secondly, try starting off as friends. The strongest relationships are the ones that have a reliable, friendly past. Joke around with him, casually flirt, do what feels natural. Guys respond to this sort of thing, and chances are that after awhile, he'll feel comfortable enough to tell you whether he likes you or not.

I wish you all the best!!

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A female reader, masquerade711 Canada + , writes (28 January 2009):

masquerade711 agony auntIt might be a smart idea to talk to him about it, rather than reading in to these seemingly small details. Your judgment can be very easily clouded when you have feelings for someone. Just be careful you don't get yourself hurt by reading in to things that aren't there. :)

masq

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