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writes:I'm in my early 40's and my question is about squirting orgasms, which I have never had. I have had a vaginal orgasm only twice, both on my own. Most of my orgasms are clitoral and extremely satisfying.Do you think it is true that every woman can have a squirting orgasm if they only know how? I've read up on the net and tried to no avail. Or do you think that some women are just not capable of that kind of orgasm?Thanks in advance for your opinion.
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reader, amym72  +, writes (14 August 2015):
I've been sexually active since I was 16 and only started squirting in my late 30s. My husband wanted me to be able to squirt and read how to stimulate the gspot. I have to be super relaxed and he has to stimulate with his fingers and not a lot of oral or I will orgasm too fast and it won't happen. I can tell when he's in the right spot because it will feel like he's putting pressure near my bladder but it starts feeling good then I feel like I have to pee then when I irgasm there is usually a wet spot the size if a saucer on the bed. If I cough or bear down it will spurt out then half the bed ends up wet. It doesn't smell like urine and I have tried coughing during regular oral without the gspot stimulation and nothing happened so I don't think its stress incontinence. During my daily life I never wet myself sneezing or coughing. I do kegel exercises regularly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2012): I don't know if 'every' woman can have one, but I do know that the squirting you see in porn isn't necessarily fake.
Squirting is certainly possible. It's not myth... Of the 10 women I've slept with in my life, 3 had vaginal orgasms during penetration resulting in extreme wetness or even actual squirting. One other squirted after oral sex. None of these required external clitoral stimulation to "get there".
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 January 2012):
 I went here: http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sexandrelationships/female_ejaculation.htm (Wikipedia is down in the USA today)
"The reality is female ejaculation isn't all that common. Some women do it once in a lifetime, but never again."
"In 1982 the publication of a highly influential book by US sex experts Whipple, Perry and Ladas changed these views. They suggested the fluid wasn't urine, but was instead a 'juice' secreted by glands that were said to be the equivalent of the male prostate."
the clitoris does not have any way to produce fluid. It's often believed to come from the Bartholins gland although they are not sure.
this article indicates that it's clearly not urine in some cases.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (18 January 2012):
 The simple answer: No.
But many women can and do emit a small amount of fluid upon orgasm, which has not been fully studied, but is believed to be excretion from a gland similar to a man's testes. It is secreted through the clitoris.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (18 January 2012):
 I've NEVER known of tyhis happening except in porn and then I'm very suspect as to the reality of the videos.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (18 January 2012):
 First off, it's a myth that there's a vaginal or clitoral orgasm. It's all clitoral. Your clitoris is huge, like fist sized, but most is inside. So when you have a "vaginal" orgasm you're actually stimulating your clitoris, just either indirectly on the outside or through the inside. Freud is wrong.
All women have the equipment, but I don't think all can have them. You have to stimulate your G-spot a LOT. It's hard to reach with your own fingers, it's best to use a vibrator or something for it. If you're hitting it right, it makes you feel like you have to pee, then for some women it goes on to feel really good. You have to do that for a long time, then most have to add in some clitoral stimulation. For women ejaculation and orgasm don't necessarily go hand in hand, so one might happen before or after the other.
I've only had it happen 4 times, and while it was an interesting experience, I don't think it actually felt better. It was just messy. The thing is I wasn't actually doing anything different from normal to get there, it seemed very random.
Honeypie is that shot for real?!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 January 2012):
I have squirted ONCE in my life. I'll be 52 in march and have been sexually active since I was 14 (it was the 70s folks)
I have never had a vaginal orgasm and i'm perfectly fine
and like eyes wide open I too have been known to "squirt" when I sneeze, or cough, or laugh too hard.... ah the joys of middle age....
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2012): As a 21 year old woman who squirts regularly, I can tell you its not all its cracked up to be, its messy and can even soak through if you put a towel or 2 down as you can produce up to a pint in each squirt!!I often don't achieve squirting unless its the 5th or 6th orgasm in a row in quick succession. (often only achieved on my own ;))I need to be completely relaxed and turned on. You have to completely let go, as generally the first few times it happens, for a split second, you think "omg im going to piss myself!" but don't worry it doesn't really have a distinguishable smell at all and certainly doesn't smell of wee!good luck!!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (18 January 2012):
 I suggest you spend not one more moment of your time considering this question.... and get on with your life... enjoying it in every/any way that you can.....
Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2012): I dont think all women can have them. I`d never even heard of such a thing until the recent explosion of internet porn. The bumph i read about them, said you would reach a point when you felt that you wanted to urinate and you had to `go with` the sensation. So i reckon 99.9% of `squirting` is probably just urine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2012): Yes, all women CAN squirt. However, you have to penetrate yourself anally, then /or at the same time vaginally , then rub hard on your clitoris. I have advised this to about 77 women in my line of work, and they ALL came back to say it worked. Enjoy, find a man to penetrate or get a vibrator
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (18 January 2012):
 I don't think every woman can have that type of orgasm. If you examine the physiology, basically what has to happen is that the woman has to secrete some fluids from the glands within the urethra--the paraurethral glands. She also has a bladder that expels urine through the urethra, so that a combination of secretions and urine may be what is expelled, assuming the correct combination of secretion and muscular spasms that cause the 'squirting.'
I would just accept that female sexual anatomy and sexual response is different than male sexual anatomy and sexual response. One is not better than the other, they are just different.
There's a nicely thorough discussion of this here:
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/squirt_on_female_ejaculation
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (18 January 2012):
 I squirt when I sneeze does that count?
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (18 January 2012):
 No I don't think all women can do, and I know not all women want to as well.
IF you want to achieve more O's I would suggest you think about getting a G-shot.
http://thegshot.com/
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