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Can a 21 year old virgin could still have an hymen even though she masturbates ?

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Question - (23 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 May 2008)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi,

I was wondering if a 21 year old virgin could still have an hymen even though she masturbates ? I noticed that there was a membrane cut in half covering the entrance of my vagina, I don't see a hole...could it be an hymen ? and can a guy know im a virgin because of that ?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (23 May 2008):

Unless your boyfriend is a deeply religious gynaecologist, he is not going to know or care whether your hymen is there or not.

You are a virgin, that's all that matters.

Besides, you say you masturbate.... Do you use tampons? Have you ever ridden a bike over rough ground? Or rock climbed? Or climbed a tree? Or ridden a horse?

If the answer to any of the above is yes then your hymen could be long gone anyway. It was only back in the old days when women spent their whole lives inside drinking tea and baking that your hymen was guaranteed to be there for your husband.

Good Luck!!

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A female reader, kittikat United States +, writes (23 May 2008):

kittikat agony auntIf you haven't had intercourse-you're hymen is more than likely intact. Masturbation is a very vague word. Have you inserted anything into your vag? If so, your hymen may be perforated or semi-perforated. Who cares? It's your body. Short of being a doctor, maybe even a GYN, no one really know's what a "virgin"'s vagina is supposed to look like. Especially the average male. If he tells you otherwise, he's pretty much reciting what he's seen or read on the internet. Don't be self-conscious, if you're a virgin- you're a virgin. Don't let some dumb frat boy tell you otherwise.

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