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Burned foreskin, and what do women prefer?

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Question - (26 March 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2010)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

About two months ago I spilled some hot coffee in my lap and I burnt my genitals. Well it was very painful and took some time to heal but it finally healed. The problem I'm having is that I'm not circumcised and my foreskin is very tight. Sex is not possible and just having an erection is painful as it stretches my foreskin as the skin is tighter than it was before. I didn't go to a doctor when this first happened. I only went two days ago. He suggested I be circumcised. At my age this doesn't seem to be an attractive idea at all. I want to ask of the women out there if they prefer circumsised or uncircumcised. Also if anyone out there has ever suffered a burn what did you do you for it?

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A male reader, happy140 United States +, writes (22 June 2010):

happy140 agony auntDo not get circumsized-Your doctor must have a lot of ducks at his house, if you know what I mean, quack quack. There is a small amount of skin that sometimes stays attached to the penis head. This can be cut as out patient, circumsizem is NOT needed. As for the womans prference, I have yet to meet one that took some time to understand it and how it works and the possibilities it has for forplay and overall pleasure who did not love it. Granted some my not care, and some may have other prferences. ANYONE who says your body when your born isn't good enough so let me cut some off have a problem. Its a same they didn't practice female circumsizen here in the US them woman wouldn't be so quick to cut it off. Keep what you have and later you will know how blessed you are for having it, and when that right woman comes along she will love you and it because it's part of you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010):

It's not really a problem for women. Some may even like it better that way because it's easier to get it clean, but in my case, I honestly don't care much any which way. A penis is a penis.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

Circumcised is fine. I don't honestly think most women are too bothered. In my experience, circumcised can be nice for a woman during oral because it is easier to keep clean.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

What I should have mentioned is that it is possible that the skin will regain it's elasticity on it's on. It might take some time. The only reason I asked about what women prefer is because if it doesn't I will have it done and I am wondering.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (26 March 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntLet's see: Keep the flap of skin...painful erections Keep the flap of skin...painful erections Keep the flap of skin...painful erections Keep the flap of skin...painful erections Keep the flap of skin...painful erections

Tough call.

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A female reader, Angzw Zimbabwe +, writes (26 March 2010):

A circumcised dick is 100 times better, cleaner. Go for it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

To all of the people who I have talked to, they prefer uncircumsised. And it isn't that rare to get it done later in life. Full recovery usually takes 1-2 months. Wouldn't it be worth it to go through with it, then once you are all healed you can go on with your life without having to worry about it?

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (26 March 2010):

Not My Name agony auntI prefer the look of a circumcised penis, ...but prefer to play with an uncut one.

It would feel strange tho having had a foreskin for so long and then someone wanting to remove it but if that is what you need to do in order to not be in pain, then I am not sure there is too much left to debate short of possible fixes not involving getting the chop.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

Ouch! That sounds painful!

I prefer circumcised, honestly.

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