New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login67637 questions, 298095 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
   
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Boys come and go... well in my case boys never come

Tagged as: Friends<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (25 December 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2008)
A female United States age 16-17, anonymous writes:

I like this guy. Problem is I like a different guy every other week...but I truely think I like this guy. Sometimes he moves in a seat and it seems like he does it to get a better view of me. He never talks to me but his friends talk to me a little. Me and my BFF joke about him and one day he was looking at me. I just hate jumping to conclusions about things. Also what does it mean if a guy looks at you 3 times but never approaches you. I am so hopeless and will never have a true true boyfriend..:(

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008):

well you have to be a little more flirty see i have the same problem and it just makes him talk to me even more

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, truly_unique New Zealand +, writes (26 December 2007):

i think what you need is a big cup of confidence! you are a smart young lady that just needs to be confident on yourself. the boy wont talk to you. sometimes when boys like a girl they dont talk. they try think of something smart and witty to say to make u laugh but nothing comes out. When talking to his mates why not try include him into the conversation. Or just start your own with him. dont panic he wont humiliate you if u try talk to him. i know approaching boys can be difficult at times especially one you like. ask him something simple that the boy can find easy to answer. even if its just a simple yes or no question answer type things its a start.

good luck

x

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, dont_worry United States +, writes (26 December 2007):

dont_worry agony auntokay if he is checking you out is because he thinks you are pretty so why dont you approach him? you know, start a conversation, be friends ;) maybe after that you can find out that he likes you and then you can start something... good luck

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, jm81690 Canada +, writes (26 December 2007):

jm81690 agony auntWell for starters you need to be realistic, if you think as far as looks go you have no chance what so ever, you probably don't.

Alot of guys are shallow, but some arn't so you may as well try.

I'd suggest just talking to him, next time he's sitting by you pretend you need help with your work or something, do something to start up a conversation. Guys always like it when girls spark up conversations with them, if you say something stupid, don't worry about it, he probably won't notice, and if he does it won't leave a lasting impretion.

good luck.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Boys come and go... well in my case boys never come"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.375!