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writes:Hey aunts and uncles!I have a quick question for the mums out there or anyone really that can help!Long story short me and my boyfriend were over heard having sex today in his house. We are both 21 so not kids! We didn't know she was home (she works most days but came home early) well I was mortified! We do stay at mine more as I have my own home but his home was closer last night. We haven't really gotten to know each other much yet my question is... Will she be disgusted? Embarassed? Has this happened to any of you? I find it a little funny but need to know how a mother would feel? Thanks guys! Any funny stories are more than welcome! Reply to this Question
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reader, Fatherly Advice  + ♥, writes (5 April 2012):
 Well, I did ask my daughter to try not to get caught by her younger siblings.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (5 April 2012):
 Not that long ago my bf's catholic grandmother walked in on us. We never discussed it and we all just acted like nothing had happened after. It just went away. I'm sure she knows at his age he is having sex! It's embarrassing, but I really don't think it will affect anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy two favourite aunts commenting on my post! I love both of your advice all of the time! All I need is Caring guy to comment now to make my month lol thank you guys!x
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 April 2012):
 My mother walked in on my at 16 having sex with my boyfriend.
she said "oh excuse me" and walked out and shut the door.
we never discussed it again... EVER.
she won't be disgusted or embarrassed if she's aware that her grown son is capable of having an adult relationship.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (5 April 2012):
The fact is it's happened and you have to get on with it.
No-one likes to be heard or even caught in the act by their or their partner's families but you're not the only couple it's happened to and won't be the last.
Personally, unless his mum says something, I wouldn't say anything.
If hearing you two at it is an issue for her then she will raise it.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (5 April 2012):
 My mother caught a g/f and me naked once -- I think I too was around 21. My mother later asked me to make sure I told the g/f that Mom didn't think any less of her and that everything was OK. I was impressed how she handled the situation!
Particularly if your b/f isn't the oldest child she knows that stuff is going on; while parents certainly don't want to be confronted with it, it's not the end of the world.
Good luck.
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