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Boyfriend treats me like unwanted object.. What should I do??

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Question - (28 May 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months and i already dont know if i can trust him. i only get to see him once or twice a week and when he goes out he never asks me to come, and when i call him the next day he says that he didnt get home until 3 or 4 in the morning and says that he doesnt remember much. i have to ring him and organise everything. can i trust him and am i in this relationship on my own? i dont know what im supposed to do? please help!

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A female reader, Phoebe Halliwell United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2006):

Phoebe Halliwell agony auntDear reader -

if he is treating you badly then break up with him, it's not hard. You say yourself he's treating you like an unwanted object. If he's hiding you at home while he goes out doesn't that say anything to you? He should take you out, spoil you and be proud you are his girlfriend. Dump him, he treats you like rubbish, dump him.

Either that, or you could always talk to him, give him a chance to change his ways, if he doesn't, Then Dump Him!

Blessed Be,

Phoebe

xxx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2006):

ok 2months is alot of time spent togther,but if you think you can stay you only get hurt much more.We dont force love where it does not exist. You true love is right behind you please notice him

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A female reader, xxxdaniellexxx +, writes (28 May 2006):

xxxdaniellexxx agony aunthmm i was in this situation with my last bf...trust me it isn't worth it as you'll worry yourself with what hes been up to. Im not incinuating that hes cheating, but thats what happened with me. It sounds like your running this relationship, have you ever tried not to contact him for a week to see if he bothers to get in touch with you? if he doesn't, then it may show that he doesn't feel the same way about you that you feel towards him. Im sorry if this sounds harsh but it may be true.

Have you asked him why he never invites you out? it's ok to have lads night out but he should be spending quality time with you! why don't you have a few girly nights out to make you feel better?

hope this helps :)

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A female reader, bridget +, writes (28 May 2006):

bridget agony auntHey there pet..

You definately deserve someone better tahn the way this guy is treating you.. Every relationship needs trust honesty and friendship for it to work properly but as Shakespeare once said "The course of True Love never did run smooth" it only takes one idiot and the whole thing is ruined...

I would advise you to speak to him about your concerns.. Voive your opinions and try to get morre things done together as a couple.. This will bring you closer together and it will bind your relationship ties aswell...

Good Luck

Jacqueline

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