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Boyfriend or best friend?

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Question - (25 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 December 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

right okay.

i have been best friends with this boy for almost 2 years now, and ive been going out with his bestfriend now for 7 months.

recently my bestfriend told me he loved me,so i was in abit of a situation .... i decided to tell my boyfriend that my bestfriend was inlove with me because i cant stand lying to my boyfriend, since then all hell has broke loose, they both despise eachother and both are in love with me, and i am in love with both of them ! (my boyfriend doesnt know i love my best friend buti have been accused many times and it has become an issue, he has even threated suicide) I Dont know who to choose, my current boyfriend is soo nice such a nice boy he would do litreally anything for me, but he is always depressed and hardly ever happy anymore. my bestfriend on thee other hand is constantly making me laugh and making me smile, and im pretty sure he would do anuthing for me aswell

i know its clear who to choose but id like your opinion, my boyfriend and i are so close and we are so in love, but the same with my bestfriend!!! help what is your opinion!!!!! thanks xxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2009):

are you sure your bf isn't just depressed because you made him miserable/insecure about the information you shared with him?

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