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Boyfriend likes me to do things I don't really want to do

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Question - (6 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 July 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend likes me to do somethings during our alone time that sometimes I just don't particularly like but it's hard for me to say no, especially because I have done it a few times before when he had asked. I love him and don't want to hurt his feelings because I don't like to do it all the time but how do I ask and what do I say without hurting his feelings or embarrassing him?

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A female reader, Ravenxx91 United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2010):

Ravenxx91 agony auntNot quite sure what type of things your talking about.

However in general, if theres something you dont want to do, if he loves you he will accept it and stop asking x

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (6 July 2010):

Tisha-1 agony auntHow old are you and how old is he, and how long have you been intimate? What are those things that are troubling you?

It's good for couples to be able to talk frankly about things that go on betweent them. "Honey, I have something that's difficult for me to discuss. Could we take a break from this activity: [fill in the blank here] because I'm feeling uncomfortable with it. It [hurts, feels bad, makes me feel bad, give me pain, makes me unhappy, again fill in the blank]."

If you talk about your feelings, then you're not necessarily hurting his feelings or embarrassing him.

More information would be necessary to help you further. Best wishes.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010):

usually you shouldnt do things you are uncomfortable with. Can you give us an example?

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