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Boyfriend is talking to another girl online but not cheating!

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Question - (17 August 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *isslcj88 writes:

I have boyfriend that have been with for 6 years got a 5 year old child with and is engaged. He gets on a site called craiglist and talk to girl behind my back I have asked him why he does this he says I don't know. now he is doing again right after my bday and our date that we have been on a date since five years ago he was going to give a stanger money if she did something to her but he had to go to her like a hour away and he couldn't do that he has our child at nights when I work so and that said he said if she could come down this sat he have the money. soo he thought I worked day 8 430 but don't he told her that which I would be home that night if I worked it he goes to his nanny during the day and would have our child so he couldn't do anything. he lying to that girl and lying to me. I haven't confront him yet this is the 5th time he has talked to a girl but as not done anything with he is also jealous that I have had another partner but I don't count cuz my boyfriend took my virginity. I have been wanting to learn how to squirt too so I ask him I could get a girl to teach me but he wants to join in I was like what about a couple he said first a girl then couple is this a stage or jealously what is he thinking. Its not like I'm talking to guys sexually like he did those girls I wouldn't do that he has never made me cum either and I have cheated I don't know what to do I don't want to leave him cuz I love him and want our family together

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A male reader, soon567 United States +, writes (17 August 2011):

your guy is willing to pay for sex and he has you. This is inter thoughts or fantasy. All of us has them, yet your guy will act or willing to act on it. I dont tnink its much you can do because i believe whatever you suggest once it in his head it becomes acceptable. If you offer a f/m/f he accepts it. You offer couples and he accepts it, and i think you offer m/m/f once again with thought he'll accept it. What can you do. Nothing, i bet he'll go for an open relationship. It comes down to you at this point.

If youre willing to stay in this relationship then you need to protect yourself from STD's. 1.) make sure he isnt hiding anything from you. He'll take more risks that way. 2.) if you stay with him then you would decide when where and who, dont be upset coz you know he's going to do it. 3.) if you do stay with him and he does it, you leave an option for yourself to do it wheater you take it up or not.

If this was me and i didnt want anything to do with it. I would sit dwn with him and work out visitation and child support. Your guy is going to be with others, sorry but be real. He willing to pay for something that is mainly free.

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