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writes:My husband and I have been experimenting with anal sex for the last year after wards there might be a spot of blood or two but this last time there has been more..now two days and there is still a little mainly with a bowel movement is this okay? I have no pain no where, this last time it was a little more uncomfortable with a stinging sensation. (like maybe I ripped a little) When do I need to be concerned..to call a dr.. Or is this normal?
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reader, curiousgirl32382 +, writes (1 October 2009):
curiousgirl32382 is verified as being by the original poster of the question No, black stools or dark colored blood, everything is normal with a little fresh blood. Im gonna give it a couple of days and then see about a doctor. I honestly don't think its any thing bad, due to the fact that there is always a little blood afterwards. Just has not lasted this long or this much. This last time we didnt use lube so I am thinking I might just have a little tear and with bowel movements (cause they are a little uncomfortable) stinging, that it's not getting a chance to heal properly. Thanks to all who answered. It's nice to be able to ask a question and get answers back and not be judged. I will follow up in a couple of days.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): Please see a doctor - bleeding from your bottom under ANY circumstance is not right and it is not for anyone here to make a diagnosis. Please don't feel embarassed - just get yourself checked.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): You may have a small tear or a hemeroid. The skin in your anus is thin, and can be damaged if you don't use enough lube or get too rough. Years ago my wife developed a small fisure after anal sex, and it took a few weeks to heal 100%.You might want to add fiber to your diet and drink lots of water and make sure that your stools are as soft was thy can be. Be gental with your bottom for a while.You shouldn't see black stools - this indicates more blood than a small tear. You might see drops of fresh blood in the toilet water- this could be a hemeroid.If the problem doesn't get better in a week or two, a trip to your doctor might be a good idea. Tell her what happened - trust me, she's heard (and seen) alot worse. The fact that she's not having to extract some odd power tools from your rear end will make your conversation MILD by comparision! Anal sex can be wonderful - you just need to be careful and use alot of good lube. We occasionally got into it w/o any (store bought) lube, and she's able to really open up. But, one runs the risk of injury...so, I recommend lots of KY or better...
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reader, LessonsLearned +, writes (1 October 2009):
If you start experiencing bleeding and pain lets call it a failed experiment. You shouldn't be experiencing an ongoing bleed, you may only be seeing it when you pass stool, but it may be an ongoing thing. Do you have dark or black stools, thats evidence of old blood. Tears, bleeds, and eventual anal prolapse( look it up on google images) are a possible eventuality. Consider it carefully.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): i would go see a doctor just to make sure its okay
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