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Bi or Bi-curious? Not sure how to take the next step

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Question - (20 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Recently i have become much more open about things with my best friend,for example, I told her I have a vibrator and I masturbate. Also, we both admitted to watching lesbian porn. We've kissed once or twice just a simple peck on the lips and we sleep naked in the same bed sometimes. The other night we took a shower together. I think we both want more though, while drunk the other night she laugh and asked "i wonder when our first lesbian experience will be." I have a boyfriend of 4 years who i love very much and am still turned on by him very much so i know im not a lesbian. Would i be considered Bi or Bi-curious. I have also fantasized about her recently. And I'm not sure how to take the next step.

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (20 August 2009):

starfairy agony auntI've never dated a woman. Yet I've been sexual with women, prefer watching lesbian porn. I don't really consider myself anything other than straight, it's just my preferences. A little bit of experimentation won't hurt...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009):

Let's reflect...

I am attracted to women. I have fantasized about women. Whether the common label created by society says I am straight or otherwise, I believe the most prudent course of action would simply be: to go with the flow.

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Whether you are whatever society brands you as, the most prudent course of action for you would simply be: go with the flow.

Why must you assign a '7 step' program to your sexuality?

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