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anonymous
writes:hi.. ive been with my fiance for nearly 4 years we've a kid together we started of as best friend cause we've knew each other from we where kids an then we fell madly in love.. only when we started going together his ex's kept texting and phoning him even when we where in bed. he said they were just friends, it went on for about a year into our relationship i was pregnant and it was still going on, even they where on his facebook he had girl mates who where even flirting with him calling him my baby, he was friends with all of his ex's an there was loads of them.One of them even put a picture of her naked and he was lookin at them. i never said anything until our baby was born. now he's saying he'll never betray me like that again and im the love of his life.. we're getting married in may and im feeling really heartboken i don't think he understands what he did..
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): tell him. tell him how bad you feel that he did that too you and how it makes you feel that you can't trust him. if that was my fiancee, i'd demand he tell them he was getting married and that they can no longer call him those names,call him in the night, or send him those sorts of pictures. try to do it in a way that doesn't make you aound too acusing, but don't be a pushover, if he senses that he can shift the blame onto you, he probably will.
hope this helps x :)
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