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writes:I've been bestfriends with this girl since 7th grade and we tried dating in 8th but it was too weird...we were texting one night and she said "sometimes i wonder why we never tried to date again,i mean you'd be the perfect guy for me cause i trust you and i know you but idk? its just a suggestion" she has a boyfriend so i asked her "what about your boyfriend?" she said "hmmm..idk i guess we just gotta play it by ear" what do i do????
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 June 2010):
You've found a girl who just wants to have her cake and eat it. No way is she worth your time. First up, she sounds disloyal to her boyfriend, which means that at some point she'd probably be disloyal to you. Secondly, it didn't work out before. Two great reasons to not bother with her.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (21 June 2010):
 Most definitely make sure she ends it with HER boyfriend before you start dating her. You do NOT want to be caught in a love triangle. Think about being in her boyfriend's place knowing that your girlfriend is secretly texting her interest towards another guy.
Also, keep that in mind if you do date her. That's kind of a warning sign that she may cheat on you if the opportunity arises, unless you lay down the law now and demand that she ends things with her boyfriend before you make a single move.
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reader, shylandavid +, writes (21 June 2010):
you need to stay away from her cuz shes bein unloyal to her boyfriend by saying those things to you! imagine iif you were dating her and you figured out that your girl was saying that to another guy,what would you doo?
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