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writes:Hi everyone, I really need help any and all advice will be needed. So I'm a 15 year old girl.. and I suck at relationships i can get the guy i want. but after i get them it goes down hill... why?Do i not show i care or what?what do i do and when do i do it?Like when should i hold his hand, sit with him, kiss him?I always mess up on that stuff...Please and thanks (: Reply to this Question |
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (25 October 2009):
At 15 your not in realtionships, your dating... there's a difference... you need to quit worrying what to do, and simply do what comes natural. If you're uptight about it, it's going to get worse. there is no formula, and we're all different. Give yourself permission to not be an expert... and enjoy the journey!
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reader, fishdish +, writes (24 October 2009):
 This is too vague to really give advice on. Why don't you give us a typical trajectory (play-by-play) of a relationship you've had recently, in terms of, how long did you know X before went out, how many dates, would you call him ever, would you show affection ever (physically or verbally)? A guy that really likes you would probably be patient with you even if your dating skills aren't up to par. My boyfriend understood i was creeped out by terms of endearment, but that didn't push him away..in general you shouldn't worry too much about how you're supposed to act and just act as you would normally, because that's what got their attention to begin with, right? but if you tell us a little about how things usually pan out, you might reveal some kind of no-no we could help you on.
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reader, CaringGuy  + ♥, writes (24 October 2009):
Do what you feel is right, and what you feel comfortable with. If you think it's going downhill, don't be afraid to ask what's going wrong. And also, you could speak to him and ask him what he's comfortbale with, so you know. Never be pressurized to do something, and always communicate.
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