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writes: Dear Cupid,At the beginning of this year I met the "Woman of My Dreams". I can't tell you how amazing this lady is! She is just fantastic!In May we moved in together. Everything was okay for a few weeks, then I just totally changed. I became very jealous, obsessive, and I was very abusive to her. She told me at the beginning of June that she had, had enough and that she wanted me to move out.When I moved out I was even more horrible to her and I really didn't handle the split very well. I know I made a terrible mess of things. But she is the most amazing thing that has ever happened to me in my whole entire life!A couple of weeks ago, I got in touch with her to see how she was because I had heard she had had some bad news. At first she was really annoyed with me. But then we got talking and she was really nice to me.Since then we have been spending time together. She will stay over at mine, or I will stay over at hers. We have been making each other dinner. Going to the pictures. Talking to each other the way we used to. Laughing and giggling, and even sleeping in the same bed together.On two occassions she has got really upset about how things are between us and she has told me that she could never take me back because of how bad I was to her, but she wishes things could be different between us. She told me that I am all she ever wanted in a man, but I've hurt her too much.I've told her that I love her, and I am still in love with her, and that I am sorry for all the bad things I have done and I am trying to change. I want to be with her more than anything in the world!She has asked me to hers again over the weekend. Does she want me back or does she just want to remain friends?Please help?
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reader, Anastasia +, writes (30 July 2005):
Why were you so horrible to her in the first place? You apparently have hurt her deeply ...very deeply. It will be hard for her to trust that you are never going to do that again. It is wonderful that you guys are friends and can hang out together etc. If you want her back...for now I think you should just go with her flow. Remember you are the one wanting to be forgiven...you were the one who broke her heart and I am sure her spirit. Just take your time and be normal with her. Take her lead...if she feels safe with you again...you will know. Don't push anything. Relax...if you love her that much...you will do anything right. If things don't work out your way...don't be angry with her...respect her decision and it will be your choice to remain friends or not. Women are emotional creatures...take your time..good luck and take care...ana
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