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Awkward dating situation, I don't know what to do

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Question - (15 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2010)
A male Singapore age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have a complicated story. I met this girl about couple of months ago and I found out she was so cute. I took her to a nice French restaurant, we went to a nice jazz club and to a live music show. All things were going so well. She once travel oversea and the first thing when she checked in hotel seeing a big bouquet. I guess she likes it but when called me she said she didn't like flowers. I guess she lied.

Then, when she came back, the first thing I was calling me and ask, what plan did you have? You know what? I think that's done. Easy. We went to a bar and when i was about to tell her I liked her, she stepped back and said I had bf? WTF...

Then i didnt contact her again until she called me. she said she had something for me. She did, she bought me wine I like and wrote a very nice card...

Things going very well until a day. She asked me to go out w her friends. I was not good that day, felt so cocky. One moment when she teased me by throwing the pillow into me. I was scowling @ her and I was very bad.

Next day, i called her out to explained and told her that I liked her. we walked down the street with was hands in hands. I said I give myself time and give you time as well. She didnt say anything, she looks at nothingness. I asked what were you thinking of. "nothing she said". Until she got back hotel, she was not so confident saying that "just friends" and runs....

I have passed the ball to her and let she make decision. I don't know, i dont feel comfortable, a bit missing her. when I made a call, the talk was so awkward...

I want her but dont know what to do...

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A female reader, johannabanana United States +, writes (18 July 2010):

johannabanana agony auntJust explain your feelings to her. Communication is key. Tell her she is sending you mixed signals and acting like a tease. Tell her to choose if she wants to be with you or not, because otherwise you will find someone else that wants to be with you and won't string you along.

-Also no offense but you have very poor writing. It is practically impossible to read what you write. Are you foreign? I would recommend reading... It will help you to understand how to write well.

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