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writes:I have a question about a the sexual prime for woman. At what age does a woman reach her sexual prime? During this period of her life does she tend to want and or have sex more? During this time is sex more enjoyable for her? During this time is the sex more passionate? Thanks for answering my questions.Regards, Jake
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reader, dwelly  +, writes (1 July 2009):
im nearly 40.im married to mark whos 11 years younger than me.very happy.trouble is my sex drive is has been 0 for 2months,now god i could just grab anyone off the street at mo in the day as im so horney.just need it all the time,myself and husband are very confused,sex 4 times in evening .strange
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reader, MRS420  +, writes (25 June 2009):
Alas however, new studies in sexuality have debunked the sexual prime myth. Originally, female prime was considered to be the early 30s and male was 18. We now know that it is late 20's for both genders. And it was never considered 40 for women ever at all. To this day I don't know where women over 40 got that prime was 40 when the original published theory clearly said early 30's. It did NOT say 40+. Not even remotely. And the word "prime" was never in the original theory. The word used was "peak" which means beginning of the downturn on the graph.I believe you are already in your sexual prime but because you are not married do not fully express it so your prime is delayed or what I call stretched. Usually ON AVERAGE,women are sexually active between 15-49yrs.In their late twenties are having more sex than they were having in their teens, need not say even better. It peaks in their 30s and is usually affected by work, stress, family and personal problems the bounces back in their 40s till the sexual clock stops ticking. At what age it stops varies from person to person, nation to nation, culture to culture e.t.cTake care.I have a question about a the sexual prime for woman. At what age does a woman reach her sexual prime? During this period of her life does she tend to want and or have sex more? During this time is sex more enjoyable for her? During this time is the sex more passionate? I can say for me it began around 41 years. I am now 43. I do tend to want more sex and it is more enjoyable - a lot more enjoyable ;) I do not believe that it is more passionate - for me. The passion does not really matter now. Just having a good time and pleasing my partner and my partner pleasing me. I think it is more enjoyable because I am much more comfortable and more confident with myself than ever before. Don't get me wrong, I did think that all these years I was having great sex, sometimes. More often that not, I could not have an orgasm. I would think about it too hard and try to hurry - not to inconvenience my partner. Now I just relax and let it go, let it happen. The first time this happened, I about exploded.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): Well I'm 32 and my fiance is 42. Presently I am the testoterone in the relationship. Yeah! He is the one with all the headaches and can't keep up with me!. For the last 2 months I just can't get enough. Meanwhile, he's in his "momen-o-pause" mode. I don't know what to do. Although I want to be considerate to his headaches, i don't want to miss out of the most pleasurable years of my life. What's a girl got to do!
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reader, jmi808 +, writes (2 March 2009):
I got married at 18 and had kids right away, but sex to me at that time wasn't very enjoyable. Now I'm in my late 30's and single again, I love sex...its alot more passionate and alot more exciting now more than ever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008): Well there are different types of prime. For example a young female might not be in her sexual prime but she is in her beauty prime and athletic prime (athletic prime is essential to good sex as anybody who as dated a young female athlete knows). A 32 year old woman might be in her sexual prime but is not in her beauty prime and by forty is not in her athletic prime either. A young male is in his athletic prime and beauty prime but not in his money and power prime and therefore doesnt create many big gap marriages. An older male might not be in his sexual prime or athletic prime but is in his money and power prime and uses those to create the bulk of society's biggest gap marriages. Alas however, new studies in sexuality have debunked the sexual prime myth. Originally, female prime was considered to be the early 30s and male was 18. We now know that it is late 20's for both genders. And it was never considered 40 for women ever at all. To this day I dont know where women over 40 got that prime was 40 when the original published theory clearly said early 30's. It did NOT say 40+. Not even remotely. And the word "prime" was never in the original theory. The word used was "peak" which means beginning of the downturn on the graph.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2008): my mans going to be 30 at the ende of this year. im 31. being together for almost 3 years, hes told me openly about how hes always had a high sex drive and alll. but, unfortunately, while im willing to fuck 15x nor more a day, obviously, he cant keep up , he says hes not 17-18 yrs old anymore. although
he initiates more often than myself. but many things come to play as well, like work, we have a 16 month old and one more on the way. i always get sad and tell him i wish id known him when he was in his prime. for the amount of times we would of had sex, he might as well have had sex with 5000 women.
he laughs. i laugh too. except i feel sad inside because his ex gfs sucked him dry. now we have eachothers leftovers.
so to speak. it sucks too because i might be in MY prime,
but children, being pregnant etc take its toll.
i was 96 pounds before getting pregnant im currently 101 pounds but i feel fat and sloppy. while he can lie to my face and say how sexy i look, i think of a 1000 ways to shove a gun in my mouth. because i dont feel sexy. i feel clumsy, and sex drive wanes at the ,moment. ahh, im just rambling now. off topic. sorry. point being, it sucks when two partners sex drives are not equal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008): I feel that my sexuality is more intense than when I was younger. I'm 30 now. I've been celibate for 9 years, so I feel I can rightly judge that my libido is increasing. Over the 9 years I've been more turned on by men being close to me as I age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): Starts mid-30's and the other answers are yes, Yes & YES!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): I am a 37 year old woman and have to say that i believe i am in my sexual prime and yes sex is so very passionate now.. so very true that we are much more confident now not only in what we want but in what we can give as well...
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reader, Minxy68 +, writes (3 March 2008):
Im a 39 year old woman and I have been told that a woman hits her prime at 30. From my experience sex does become more passionate, maybe because when a woman hits her 30's she is more confident and knows what and how she wants it. Yes I do think that in your prime you want more sex and it is definatly more enjoyable.
Hope that answers your question for you.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (20 February 2008):
I believe you are already in your sexual prime but because you are not married do not fully express it so your prime is delayed or what i call stretched.Usually ON AVERAGE,women are sexually active between 15-49yrs.In their late twenties are having more sex than they were having in their teens,need not say even better.It peaks in their 30s and is usually affected by work,stress,family and personal problems the bounces back in their 40s till the sexaul clock stops ticking.At what age it stops varies from person to person,nation to nation,culture to culture e.t.c
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008): From 35 to 40 when she shed all her sexual inhibitions and fear of getting pregnant.
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Haha! My aunt is 53 and jokes about wandering around the nursing home with a walker, searching for a tampon. :D Still ovulates.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 February 2008):
 From 35 to 40 when she shed all her sexual inhibitions and fear of getting pregnant.
You can Google for that answer.
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reader, DoubleM + ♥, writes (20 February 2008):
 Actually, everyone is different in this regard, depending on so many different things about their lives. But I have read that women actually begin to peak from about the age of 30 to 40 and beyond, while men are most virile beginning about 18 through the 30s. So in that sense, if true, men peak early and begin to decline about the time women reach their heights in sexuality.
In my opinion, it matters little, as I'm very hot since my 50s began, and I think young women in their late teens and early 20s are super sexual (I hear. Not sure. They ignore me now). Who cares anyway? If you meet the right member of the opposite sex at any time, just get it on if available !
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008): I'm (about) 18, and in my prime. Have been for two years. Still going strong. :D Just kidding. I'm not really sure if I am in my prime or not...gotta wait a few more years to get back to you on this one.
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