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writes:So I broke up with my gf... this time I am sure that its final. Every time I talked to her on cam I was put to the side, im on deployment so its tough on me, then she lies to me. So I donno what to do so I just said we need to take a break, I talk to her about it a lot and she still does it so I got sick and tired of it. Anyone got any advice? Or should I just call it quits?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the adivce, I will try it out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): if she really cared shed listen to your concerns and try to fix it...if u told her how you feel and u still get the same outcome then shes not worth your time...
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reader, Racna1305 +, writes (21 November 2010):
 I Thank you for what you do for the country. I know its hard being away from everyone which leads into my answer......call it quits. You are already going through enough as is and long distance relationships are insanely hard if the two people arent on the same page as far as communication and effort goes. You do enough over seas as is and you dont need more stress from a woman who wont try. If she isnt trying to do something thats not asking for too much and then she lies then it isnt the person you need to be with. If you choose to stay then you need to really talk with her, thing is there is only so much you can do being so far away. If you do decide to leave then LET HER KNOW you made your mind up and isnt going to work. If she fights for it then maybe things can work out if not then focus on what you are doing over there man. Dont juggle two fights especially since one is petty with someone who doesnt care
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): I think that its really messed up of her to not cherish the time you two have together, even if it is over a camera. You are deployed. I don't know how long you two have been dating or what she lies to you about, but there shouldn't be lying in a relationship anyway.If she continuously lies to you and doesn't take time out of her day to listen to how you are or to see if you are even alright, then I would find a girlfriend who is willing to do those things for you.On the other hand. Since you are deployed, she may just be terrified at the thought of something happening to you, so whether or not she is doing it consciously, it seems like she might be distancing herself from you because of that fear.If you really love her and want this to work you need to find out if she feels the same and wants this to work.If so, then work it out. Tell her how you feel. And if she doesn't, then move on. I'm sure there are plenty of women who will support you.I hope this helps.
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