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writes:I just recently made my best friend my girlfriend (we've known each other for two years) and I love her to absolute death. The problem is, we aren't in a serious relationship. She says she likes me but is not lesbian and would prefer if I was a guy. I am very confused. I don't know if we're in an actual relationship or not (it's long distance)Help please?
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (25 April 2016):
 How do you see this working long distance?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys for answering! We talked about it and she says that she will try being in a relationship with me and if she doesn't like it, she will tell me and it will be over
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (23 April 2016):
 No, you are an actual relationship, your long distance friend has told you she prefers guys, and you need to accept she is heterosexual.
You can remain best friends, but there is no future here if you only want a romantic or sexual connection.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (23 April 2016):
No you aren't in a serious relationship. That is one in which people commit totally to each other. Your friend isn't doing that - and maybe doesn't want to. She has expressed a preference for men. You need to respect that.
Unrequited love is painful, particularly over a distance such as you are experiencing. I think you need to ask straight out if there is any hope for you both, and then abide by the answer.
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