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Are we friends or more? What should I do when I see her next?

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Question - (15 September 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2006)
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is this love or friendship or what? i hated this girl but we became really good mates. we are extremely close. I started fancying her. she has a boyfriend. they been goin out for 6months.

after school on monday she told me to walk her home and stay round for about 3hours while she baby sits her 7yrs old brother at home. she usually tells her boyfriend

but this time she said' i would prefer if you came so i'm not gonna ask him' does she just want to talk to me like a friend or does she like me but doesn't realize?

i'm meeting her on monday. so what should i do. she told me her boyfriend is boring but she still loves him. they had arguement a week ago when she came and cried on my shoulder. but now they are fine.

i hate her boyfriend since i knew him. anyway shall i tell her on monday how i feel? is she my friend? or does she love me but has kept her boyfriend just in case i turn her down?

reply before monday please. whoever replies i will love forever thanks.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2006):

if shes having a hard time then maybe she just wants a friend? xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2006):

I think that the only way you'll know how this girl feels is if you ask her. She may be sitting there on her own dilemma, not willing to make a move until you do, or she could be simply content where she is. You never know. And like I said, you'll never find out until you ask her. So just go for it the next time you see her, and hopefully things will turn out for the best. The worst thing she can say is no, after all. Gather the courage and be up-front with her. I hope it all works out for the better. I wish you the best of luck. Take care!

~RJGirl

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