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writes:Are there any people out here that are in a marriage an have been cheated on or have cheated themselves. If you are, would you please tell me or share if after a while it will ever get better and happiness will return? If you cheated (male only) did you change? and Why did you changed? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDo you mean you got a divorce? when you said you "moved on" , or are you still with your wife?-You sound like a mature person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): yes. I have cheated on my wife. I fell in love with another woman. I got closer to somebody else when she was spiritualy away from me. I was lost. I needed a reference. I really needed to understand what am I missing in relationship with my w. I got answers and got back. I never told her.
Things got better and better and I moved on. I helped her to solve her problems after that and be happier person. There is no excuses for cheating. It is not ok. The option for me was divorce or learn a problem. what would you choose?
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reader, flower girl +, writes (9 November 2007):
 Hi
My husband chaeted on me and then left and moved in with his girlfriend, he was suffering with depression at the time and he was just not right.
After eight months of being away, i cant say i had moved on, but things were getting slightly easier, my husband had been treated for depression and realised it was the biggest mistake he had ever made and we decided to sort things out and start again.
When i look back on it now we were both to blame and i do believe that usually it is down to both parties that this happens, we had just kind of lost sight of each other because of lots of other different things that were going on in our lives.
Take care.xx.
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