New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244965 questions, 1084303 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Are other girls like this, or is it just me?

Tagged as: Pornography, Sex, Teenage<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (5 February 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Am I the only person who is bipolar about masturbation? :/

Like, sometimes, I like doing it, and it feels really good. But then, sometimes, maybe afterwards, I'll ask myself what I just did, hate it, then squeeze my eyes shut and wish I could just [stop]. A few days later, it starts all over again. Is this just me? Has it happened to only me?

Also, I've seen a few things I probably shouldn't have... Does this keep me straight or make me bi or something?

I sometimes read Hentai online. And I realized that I got sort of turned on by the girls with bigger boobs. Usually while they were doing it. :/

Am I still straight?

I mean, I don't imagine or even want to do it with another girl, but I just get sort of turned on by the sight of them having sex...

Please help?

View related questions: boobs

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010):

lol i am completely the same. i used to think i was bi because i got turned on by the females aswell as the men, but this is just a normal thing because since in porn for example, everything is about sex, and so we get aroused by everything. i always watch porn while masturbating, and dont think i should feel guilty for it as im not out having dangerous one night stands. just live, go with what you like, and dont feel bad. xx

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2010):

no its normal. im the same way. i used to feel terrible after masturbating but now im fine with it it just a phase ittll pass. and about the hentai thing is that porn?? or what haha. i would never wanna do anything with a girl either but it is a turn on to watch.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (6 February 2010):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntHey well the only way you can be bisexual is if you think you are! if you are not attracted to girls i wouldnt worry about it many people are turned on by watching people of the same gender have sex, it does not affect there sexuality.

the masturbation thing happens to many people, but it is important to remember that there is nothing wrong with it and no reason to feel bad or ashamed, most people do it and its more than normal.

x

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010):

no you are not the only one. i have felt that way before so i don't think that makes you bi or anything. put yourself out there and get a boyfriend,i promise that you won't need to do that because you will be to caught up in fantasies/dreams about your new man-i know i am!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Are other girls like this, or is it just me?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.031265199999325!