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Are breast implants attractive to men?

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Question - (28 October 2009) 16 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am in great shape and all natural. As women we are inundated with images of women with the perfect breast implants. Women are getting boob jobs all the time. Honestly, to the men out there are breast implants attractive. Do they look fake?

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A female reader, dr.2.be United States + , writes (31 October 2009):

dr.2.be agony auntWell like many of the other aunts stated, men like breasts of all sizes, shapes, and looks. The vast majority of them don't care wether they are fake or not. However, they may have preferences in size and shape including whether the boobs are fake or real. Some guys may not like them at all since they do not feel like real breasts. Some may even prefer them over smaller breasted women; they may be more attracted to the larger size. However those guys who are worth being with my have preferences, but they won't base everything soley on your breasts. They will like you no whether your breasts are fake or not.

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A male reader, badAdvice United Kingdom + , writes (31 October 2009):

badAdvice agony auntBoobs are boobs and I don't discriminate. However, having said that, natural is just better. It's not debatable nor is it a matter of opinion. Natural breasts can do things that those other silly silicon things can't(no offense to any implanted girls who read this...the alliteration was tempting)

I mean c'mon, look at Katie Price and tell me those this look attractive whilst keeping a straight face!

Jokes aside this my answer: Size doesn't define a good pair of breasts. Texture, apppearance and legitimacy does.

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A male reader, Braveheart Australia +, writes (31 October 2009):

Personally, I'm turned off by breast implants. Even if they felt real, I'd be turned off as soon as I found out they were fake. I like natural breasts, whatever the size.

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A female reader, SugarBear  United States +, writes (30 October 2009):

SugarBear  agony auntLike I stated before and I am sure the reader understands what I am saying, its pretty basic, Men love boobs of all sizes, shapes and colors on all types of women....she never said she was going to get them and I did not suggest that, just do men find them attractive.. I agree with what anonymous said....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009):

Hello. Im 26 and I have had breast implants. I had this done because before both my breasts were uneven. To be honest I have had 3 sexual partners since getting them done and all guys have said they wouldnt mind them either way. So I think it depends on personal opinion. But for me Im extremely happy I had them done.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico + , writes (29 October 2009):

Danielepew agony auntBeing on the "appreciative side of the question", poster, I can tell you that not all fake breasts look "perfect". Just like not all natural breasts look perfect, either.

You have the right attitude.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

As a follow up, NO I would not get breast implants. I would not put something articficial in my body. Mine are large but not perfect the way they are when they are fake. I believe in working with what you have and making the best of it through working, out eating right.

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A female reader, Ginalolabridga United Kingdom + , writes (29 October 2009):

Ginalolabridga agony auntJust adding my tuppence worth here, my friend got implants a few years back she was in her forties at the time and we all thought she was mad, but to give credit where credit is due they look brilliant, they feel real and yes she gets plenty of admirers wanting to talk with her, only down side i have with them is when i go swimming with her.

Hers always looks pert, while i have to use a harness type swimsuit to keep mine pert!

Gina

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A female reader, rhythmandblues2 United States + , writes (29 October 2009):

rhythmandblues2 agony auntListen to Sugar Bear, she is brilliant and she has been married for 8 years, lived with countless men, been married and divorced and if any one knows what it takes to entertain a man it is her.

Her advice is soooo helpful isn't it, men love boobs and if they had a pair they would play with them all day.

Well let's see, I guess she is telling you that you are not good enough the way you are if you don't have a great set of boobs and you must me nasy, depressed, bored and alone if you don't do something to get a man.

But if you want to listen to someone old like me who has all natural boobs and has a boyfriend 15 years younger than she is and she is in her 50's well, I think you should only get fake boobs if you like to play with them.

The reason being that any man that would only choose you for your breasts is a dick wad and you would get bored with him in about 15 minutes.

Unless you are brainless and like to think that you actually have power over men because of things like, er well your boobs....which I am sure Sugar Bear can attest to.

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A male reader, Illithid United States + , writes (29 October 2009):

Illithid agony auntPersonal opinion, and the opinion of the men I know, is that implants can make you look nice in a tight shirt, but they don't look as good when the top comes off and certainly don't feel as good. You might turn more heads, but a man that's close enough to see you in the bedroom would prefer natural breasts.

What I want to say though, and this may be entirely out of line, is that you don't want a man that wants you just because you've got surgically enlarged breasts. A man that loves you will love whatever breasts you have, and you'll have enough trouble getting him to let go of them as they are.

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A female reader, SugarBear  United States +, writes (29 October 2009):

SugarBear  agony auntMen love boobs all the time in all shapes sizes and colors usually the bigger the better... they would play with them all day long if they had them.......

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009):

There is sort of a style choice between looking real or looking fake, even from one implant patient to another implant patient. Some women actually want a bit of a fake-boob look and others don't.

I don't know any guys who actually prefer fake-looking boobs. But I know a lot of guys who just kinda shrug their shoulders and say, "whatever, as long as they look & feel real."

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico + , writes (29 October 2009):

Danielepew agony auntThe only good answer I can give you is "It depends".

Why are you considering breast implants? That's part of "It depends".

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A female reader, Sugarbuns +, writes (29 October 2009):

Sugarbuns agony auntDepends on the man. Depends on the boob job. Some men don't care, some do. It's as individual as anything else.

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A male reader, back2gether United States +, writes (29 October 2009):

I'm not crazy about breast implants, but a lot of guys like them. If it makes you feel better and you want them, then do it. Don't do it just because you think guys like them, because some do and some don't.

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A female reader, satindesire United States +, writes (29 October 2009):

satindesire agony auntWhen a woman gets a GOOD set of implants, a man cannot tell the difference. And I'll give you some facts and information to prove it.

The realism and believability of the implants...well...It depends on several factors whether a woman's implants look obvious or not.

1-Did the woman have a good doctor with plenty of experience on what position to place the implants, and what incisions to use?

2-Did the woman have a decent amount of breast tissue before the surgery, to soften and cover the 'edges' of the implants and make them less noticeable?

3-Did the woman choose a size and shape suitable for her body type, weight, age, and fitness level?

4-Did the woman choose a saline, silicone, or cohesive gel implant?

5-Has the woman experienced any capsular contraction or scar tissue buildup over the implant?

6-Did the woman follow the correct guidelines for massaging the implants to help them 'drop' into the chest wall correctly?

So as you can see, many different factors play into whether or not a woman's implants look real or not. Many different Hollywood actresses with large breasts have had implants that many people are not aware of, such as Catherine Zeta Jones, or Jeri Ryan. Their breasts 'look real' because they had a good doctor, got the right implant for themselves, and took good care of them.

Other women, such as Lindsey Lohan, got implants that 'look fake' because she did not get the right size for her body and did NOT take good care of them.

I strongly suggest you look into getting the new "Cohesive Gel Implant" or 'Gummy Bear" implant. It is made up of silicone gel that is nearly completely solid, meaning that if the shell of the implant breaks, the silicone does not leak or travel in the body and cannot make you sick. They have a much more realistic gravity and weight, with a bounce and tactile feel of genuine breast tissue, and are almost completely undetectable to the eye and hand. They are not available to every doctor, so unless you live in a large major city in a well-populated state such as Cali, Florida or New York, you may have to travel to find a doctor who is trained on using them.

If you have further questions, please let me know.

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